Talk To Yourself Like You Would To Someone You Love

Talk To Yourself Like You Would To Someone You Love…
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“You’re so stupid!”

“I can’t believe you did that!”

“You are the worst mother in the world.”

“Wow, congratulations on that.” (Sarcastically)

If someone spoke to me like that, I would have knocked them across the room by the second day of this kind of verbal abuse.

But it came from me.

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This started as an experiment after watching “Listening to Shame by the amazing Dr. Brene Brown.  She said something there that just paralyzed me.

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I listened to my inner monologue carefully this week, and I do not talk to myself in a loving way.  I would never say these words to my children, to family or the people I care about.  So, why would I say them to myself?

I’m feeling exposed as I’m writing this, knowing that you now know how I talk to myself.  But I’m wondering if I’m the only one who refuses to give myself a break.  How is your self-talk?  Dr. Brown’s “Shame” talk is actually the second in a really mind-blowing series where she teaches you about yourself–the first is called “The Power Of Vulnerability.”  Both talks are less than 20 minutes and so worth your time.  I would love to know what you think…and how you speak to yourself afterwards.

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