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Creepy-Cool! This Is What Giving Birth Feels Like For Your BABY

This is what your baby feels during labor.


The miracle of birth is something we all go through. Sadly, we can’t remember any of it. A mom may remember her pregnancy, but have you ever wondered what it felt like for us? What was going on in our little baby brains at the time? Did we enjoy the process of our freedom from our mother’s womb?

Rachel Lewis breaks it down for us in this article for The National.

1. Pre-labor

While Mom is busy going about her daily business, the baby decides that it’s time to come out and experience the world. So it starts pressing into the birth canal, dilating the cervix.

Meanwhile, Mom begins feeling the first wave of contractions, each 20 minutes apart. While she’s yelling at Dad to get the car, and for goodness sake forget about posting this on Facebook, she’s also releasing oxytocin. The hormone calms the baby until they’re ready to be born.

2. During labor

As Mom’s contractions become more powerful, the baby might feel its surroundings becoming cramped and oxygen from Mom’s placenta become scarcer. But this is nothing to worry about, as babies can sleep through the contractions.

If Mom decides to use opiate drugs as a pain reliever, she and the baby can both feel drowsy. Un-medicated babies tend to be alert and hungry after birth. Relaxing during labor is imperative for the Mom, because if she’s stressed, the baby will be, too.

3. First stage

As time between Mom’s contractions become shorter, her cervix is slowly dilating even more. Meanwhile, the walls around the baby are slowly getting smaller, but it feels no pain. There’s even less oxygen than before, which is why mom is encouraged to breathe despite the pain.

4. Second stage

Mom is now trying to push the baby out of the birth canal (the best way to do this is while reclining, in a pool, or on all fours). Since the baby’s skull isn’t fixed yet, it can mold into the shape of the birth canal as it’s moving along. Dr. Anne Deans says that babies are physiologically prepared for this. Posterior, transverse, and breech babies take longer to move through the birth canal because they weren’t in an ideal position.

5. Delivery

As the baby finally pushes through the birth canal, it might feel an initial shock. According to Dr. Deans, babies born in calm and dimly lit rooms tend to be calmer. Once the burning sensation has passed, mom can finally hold her little one.

“This will calm your baby down, help to regulate his heart and respiratory rate, keep him warm, and start the hormonal process for breastfeeding,” said Dru Campbell, a senior midwife atHealth Bay Polyclinic in Dubai.

And there it is: the miracle of life! Do you remember it? Would you want to?


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  3. Gayatri Mantra 05/13/2016 at 3:45 am

    V cute and adorable colonthree emoticon

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  5. Janet Ingrao 03/07/2016 at 10:27 am

    I most definitely remember it and it was the most amazing experience of my life.

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  7. ang 12/09/2015 at 4:17 am

    Natural birth, when that baby is born, is the most wonderful experience in this world. We are not given more pain than we can handle. That is birth. That moment, when pain is gone, baby is there…….. the most wonderful experience ever. Such a shame that doctors often take this natural experience, away from us.